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  4. Why is there a need for transition?
    Why can’t we just switch into something?
    Why can’t we just change abruptly?

    Transitioning to change is one way of making sure that it is what you really want. And what you really want is something worth giving up all that you are and all that you have before you get to it.

    So you wake up every single day, and you ask yourself over and over again, in many different ways, twisting at every angle possible… Checking… If the change you want to become is in line with person you want to be.

     
  5. I tried but I just can’t get the hang of IG. I can’t keep up taking photos of my food before eating them. Although I do this to BBM it to my boyfriend, I can’t muster energy to upload such food porn on IG so I could 1) update my IG or 2) show off the chili-mansi canton. So I’m sticking with this Tumblr to update and will simply head to IG or my new love, Pinterest, to get inspired.

     

  6. NME

    God loves selflessly and unconditionally.

    So why can’t we be god-like? Why is it so hard to love?

    Selfishness is human nature. So is freewill. Theoretically speaking, it is only when one is purely logical that one can be without emotion or feelings. Being purely logical means knowing what is right or wrong, and doing only what it right. Therefore, God is logical. He is so powerful he has surpassed all selfish desires.

    He knows everything about reason. He is reason.

    He has made it a point to wake up every morning and live for us. Come to think of it, it’s the only thing he does.

    We, on the other hand, lack the willpower to wake up an hour earlier every morning to jog or run. Heck, it takes a lot of supernatural strength just to shut off the alarm.

    To love, you have to have reason. And the only reason is love. You take so much of your time, time you will never get back, to spend it on something or someone. Why do you that? Maybe because it/he/she is important. It could be 8 hours of work that pays the bills, an hour at the gym to give back to your body, or 2 straight hours of phone call with someone you love who lives in another island.

    Love is difficult. It takes a lot of work. It is not the gifts that you send or receive. It is not the daily exchanges of sweet nothings. It is not the amount of time or money you have invested in that person.

    It is a decision.

    To love despite differences.

    To love despite arguments. 

    To love despite distance.

    To love despite the wrong.

    To love despite weaknesses.

    To never give up.

    On that someone. On love.

    Don’t get me wrong, I am not telling you to stay in an abusive relationship. If you are in one, you need help.

    This is about love. How difficult it is, how it makes you weightless and drives you crazy at the same time, how it takes a lot to love.

    Selflessly. Unconditionally.

    At some point, that kind of love is impossible because we are wired differently. Man is born to protect himself, that involves being selfish. Freewill is logic mixed with selfishness.

     
  7. Days and nights.

     
  8. Burn, baby. Burn.

     
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